Our Easter

Easter this year was an interesting experience. It was brutal outside, windy, rainy and dark – so we had to dress up and have the egg hunt inside. The kids were sick and Jeff was recovering from his “procedure” [the one that fixed him ;)]. It was all a little chaotic for me, but it was fun none the less.

One of the funnier parts of the day was when Auntie Coley called to wish the kids a Happy Easter. When she asked Landon what the Easter Bunny brought we told her that we didn’t do the bunny - just baskets. Nichole said, “Oh are your baskets from Jesus?” How much would that confuse your children? Ha ha. Anyway, hope everyone reading this had a blessed Resurrection Day and maybe enjoyed a little nicer weather.

Let Love Guide You

"Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?" Jesus replied:" 'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.' This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments."
Matthew 22:36-40


"The only way we can fulfill the will of God in our lives is to be love-inspired, love-mastered, and love-driven. A person controlled by the Holy Spirit needs no law to cause her to live a righteous life. I imagine we've all been in situations where self-control was difficult to maintain, but we will bear the fruit of God's Spirit if we surrender to him."
-Thelma Wells.

To Grow or Not To Grow

So many times I have looked around at other Christians and wondered, how did they get so wise? How did they grow so fast? Why do I feel like I am so far behind? Maybe God just didn’t make me capable of understanding the biblical truths that they can? There have also been times that I have felt like the Lord was blessing me with understanding, but that my growth was moving at the pace of a turtle. Lately it is has been my hearts burning desire to have wisdom, discernment, and to be well versed in my bible. I am currently reading A Woman After God’s Own Heart, by Elizabeth George, and in it she says something that I found motivating:

“Do you believe you can be this woman [the woman you want to be spiritually]? With God’s grace and His strength you can! That’s his role in your life. But there is also a place for your effort. As Scripture says, ‘[You] keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life’ (Proverbs 4:23, emphasis added). You determine some elements of the heart. You decide what you will or will not do, whether you will or will not grow. You also determine the rate which you will grow — the hit-and-miss rate, the measles rate (a sudden rash here and there), the 5-minute-a-day rate, or the 30-minute-a-day rate. You decide if you want to be a mushroom—which appears for a night and shrivels away at the first hint of wind or heat – or an oak tree, which lasts and lasts, becoming stronger and mightier with each passing year…. ‘God will take you as far as you want to go, as fast as you want to go.’ How far… and how fast… do you want to move toward becoming the woman of your dreams?”

Time to put some more feet to my faith!

The BEST Night of my Life

At MOPs a mom talked about her Valentine's date with her kids. So I tried her idea and it was the best night of my life. In the mail I put an invitation for L and one for J that read, "You are invited to a Valentine's day dinner and dance with Mommy and Daddy. Dress Fancy! We love you!" The kids loved it and they must have used the word fancy one hundred times. So we all dressed up in our fanciest clothes :).

Then I set the fancy table. I put down a red table cloth and glasses and dishes. Our dinner was not fancy, but something the kids would like, hot dogs wrapped in crescent rolls (if that's fancy we are definitely trailer park material).
Do you see my fancy paper towel napkins? Ha ha. After dinner we danced. The first dance was to Cinderella by Michael W. Smith. It was so fun! Then we put on some faster music and were being total goofballs. At one point L said, "We are being a dorky family". After our night of dancing we put sleeping bags on the floor for the kids and popped popcorn and watched Monsters Inc.
When it was time for Hubby and I to turn in for the night I must admit that I snuggled up to him and cried. My babies are just growing up too fast and my heart hurts to think about it. We agreed that this would be our Valentine's Day tradition for as long as the kids allow. I can't wait for next year!

Becoming A Woman Of Discretion

“Every wise woman builds her house: but the foolish tears it down with her hands.” (Proverbs 14:1)

1. Am I building up my house or tearing it down?

2. Am I investing in my marriage? Am I nurturing the heart of my marriage?

3. Do I frequently express admiration and gratitude to my husband?

4. Am I reserving the best of my physical and emotional energy for my family?

5. Am I creating a climate (through words, actions, and attitudes) that makes my husband want to be at home?

6. Am I content to be “at home”? Am I finding my “fulfillment” through reverencing and serving my husband and family?

7. Do I reserve intimate communication, looks, words, and touch for my husband? Am I giving my emotions, attention or affection to a man other than my husband?

8. Am I meeting my husband’s sexual needs?

9. Am I trustworthy? Is there any behavior or relationship I am involved in that I am keeping from my husband? Have I been totally honest with my husband?

10. Does my husband have the freedom to be totally honest with me?

11. Am I fueling sensual thoughts and desires through books, magazines, TV programs, music, or movies that are not morally pure?

12. Have I become a “refuge” for a man who may be struggling in his marriage?

13. Am I looking to a man other than my husband (pastor, counselor, colleague) to be a primary source of counsel or to fill an emotional vacuum in my life?

14. Do I have a more intimate relationship—physically, emotionally, or spiritually—with any man than I do with my husband?

15. Does my demeanor tend to be “loud and defiant,” or do I communicate a meek, quiet, and submissive spirit?

16. Am I a “wall” or a “door” (Songs of Songs 8:9)? Am I a “loose” woman? Do I communicate to the men around me that I am “available”? Does my demeanor invite them to “partake” of intimate parts of my body, soul, or spirit? Do I engage in flirtatious speech, looks, or behavior?

17. Is there anything about my speech, actions, dress, or attitudes that could defraud the men around me?

18. Am I discreet and restrained in the way I talk with men at work? Is my conversation ever loose, crude, or unbecoming for a woman of God? Am I expressing admiration for a man that should more appropriately come from his wife?

19. Does my dress help men keep their thoughts pure and Christ-centered? Is my dress feminine and modest?

20. Have I erected (and am I maintaining) adequate “hedges” in my relationships with men?

21. Am I currently in a situation that is (or could become) compromising? Am I in a situation that could appear to others to be compromising?

22. Would my husband, as well as other men and women who know me, say that I am a woman of moral virtue and purity?

23. Have I purposed in my heart to be morally pure? Am I making myself accountable to my husband and to other godly women for my walk with God and others?

“Who can find a virtuous woman? For her price is far above rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10)

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